"As for me, is my complaint to man? and if it were so, why should not my spirit be troubled?" (Job 21:4)
To whom are we pouring out our troubles? To mere men? Or can we say like David, "I cried unto the LORD with my voice; with my voice unto the LORD did I make my supplication." (Psalms 142:1) Man is not the right source from which to seek true comfort. Yes, God uses men to comfort, but He is the ultimate comforter, able to help and change things.