The story of Abraham and Sarah
fascinates me. What trust of a woman who follows her husband into the unknown,
following a God that their fathers did not serve!
Sometimes, we girls dream of
following our future husbands that way. In our minds, we are totally dedicated
to our husbands – “Even as Sara obeyed
Abraham, calling him lord” (1 Peter 3:6). If God calls our husband to a
foreign mission-field, we will go! If God calls him to travel the country, we
will go! If God calls him to be a music minister, we will go! We are prepared
to follow God through our husbands when that day comes.
But what if God calls our Dad?
If God calls our Dad to a foreign
mission field, will we go? (“But there are no eligible young men in
Papua New Guinea!”)
If God calls our Dad to travel the country, will we go? If God calls our Dad to
be a music minister, a pastor, a soul-winning layman, will we go? If God calls
our Dad to stand for truth even when others disagree or lead his family in a way
contrary to others . . . will we go? Are we prepared to follow God through our
Dad?
It looks glorious to be a
dedicated little wife, faithfully submitting to her husband (Ephesians 5:22, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own
husbands, as unto the Lord.”), but to submit to our dads!? When following our Dad means we have to leave friends, lose
friends over differences, go where there seems to be no future husbands for us,
or be the “different” girl, we are not so ready to be a “dedicated little {daughter},
faithfully submitting to her {dad},” ready to go and support him where God has
led him. However, before a girl can submit to her future husband, she has to
learn to submit to her Dad (Hebrews 13:17, “Obey
them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch
for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy,
and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.” – Ephesians 6:1, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord,
for this is right.”).
As a daughter, we have the
privilege and honor of being our Dad’s cheer-leading team, his support-group,
and his encourager. But we can destroy that privilege by being our Dad’s
resistance, his sorrow, and his discouragement.
Though written for all believers,
there are a few simple truths that we should apply for being our Dad’s
supporter:
~We must strive to keep ourselves
in unity with our Dad’s decisions
Romans 15:5-6 – “Now the God of patience and consolation grant you to be likeminded one
toward another according to Christ Jesus: That ye may with one mind and one
mouth glorify God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.”
Philippians 2:2 – “Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of
one accord, of one mind.”
~We must faithfully pray for our
Dad
1 Timothy 2:1-2 – “I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers,
intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; For kings, and for
all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all
godliness and honesty.”
~We must close our lips when
tempted to disagree with our Dad’s decisions
Philippians 2:3 – “Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of
mind let each esteem other better than themselves.”
Philippians 2:14 – “Do all things without murmurings and
disputings.”
1 Peter 3:10-11 – “For he that will love life, and see good
days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no
guile. Let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it.”
~We must forget how our Dad’s
decisions affect our wants and
support him
Philippians 2:3a-4 – “but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.
Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of
others.”
When God calls a daughter to be
like Sarah – to leave her family, her friends, and follow God – God also gives
her the grace to follow (2 Corinthians 12:9, “And He said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for My strength
is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my
infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”). Sarah could not
follow Abraham in her own strength, nor can we follow our Dad or our future
husband in our own strength. But: “I can
do all things, through Christ, which strengtheneth me.”
(Philippians 4:13)
Is God calling you to be a Sarah?
How will you respond?